Now you probably expect some kind of wisdom.
(I can tell you, it’s pretty annoying, when you constantly find yourself walking about scattering wise thoughts.
Especially as the next minute is sure to see you making a horrible blunder.)
Okay, here it is:
What is my idea of a healthy relationship –
regardless of age, race, sex, denomination etc.?
The pattern can be found already in Ecclessiastes 3:5b (Kazatel),
but in line with the current trend of expressing everything in terms of competences I shall define it as follows:
An emotionally mature person is able to
- offer a hug to a person in need of it, with no side interests
- accept a hug, without inadequate expectations
- voluntarily refrain from hugging
- as well as from a desire to be hugged
You wouldn’t believe how liberating it is to have mastered if only one of these competences.
If you have any comments or ideas concerning hugs
(or anything else for that matter), do post them!
It feels somehow strange not to receive any reaction;
kinda like writing on a wall outside your house...
End of series.
Thanks for you patience, kids, see you tomorrow.
pondělí 20. října 2008
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It has become my regular habit each morning, when i come to work earlier than my boss (as he is sitting right behind me) to spend some sweet minutes of illegal laziness before actually starting to work... i open my email, then read quickly news on seznam, open my private email, and then there it is, i check what´s new with "the pony"... and i must say, that it is usually much more interesting, than the news - thanks and take care! *t.
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